@dwarf We havnt told him he is adopted yet Shhhh LOL
I think a lot of times its really like Idiocracy , and so many people think they have to have kids, sadly most of the ones who think they have to should not and it just leads to a vicious cycle.
that being said the pluses are pretty good Tax wise and for health insurance, and both of us having excellent credit pretty much means they will let us by anything we want ā¦ sadly Shari is honest and wont let m fake my death every time we buy a car š